Father and son

These photos were taken last December, suddenly found in a hidden folder while i'm digging out some files.
Like these very much...nothing can be as cute as these 2 VIPs in my life.

I'm back again

Hi, I'm back....after more than a year silence...successfully kicked out the laziness in my head :)

Updates....
My son, Gary which we like to call him little bao is now 3 years 5 months old. He has grown up a lot and now a little adult... He is now attending full day care, every morning i send him to nursery before i go to work and pick him from nursery after work. At first, i thought i will be having tough time when converting him from a half day school to full day. But to my surprise he adapting the change very well, no complaint from him and indeed he enjoying everyday in school. Perhaps, he is having more time spending with his friends now and he really enjoying be a part of them,Thanks to the teachers' effort as well.

His favourite still Lighting Mcqueen ....Thomas and Friends....Mickey Mouse...and now exploring Dora. Guess this little fella got his daddy and mame gene which like looking at the TV :)

3 more months later, our family will grow bigger by adding in a new member, we are expecting a mei mei to join us :) This will complete our family and we are all looking forward to her arrival....Poo Daddy called mei mei "B Nui". Everyday he will message me...."Morning loupoh, how are you doing today? How is B Nui?"...Well, mei mei seems quite active and always show her power of kick boxing in my stomach....i think she is even more active than Gary.

Then how is the mame looks like now? Ooo....big....everything is big, i so so envy those mame can stay slim and only the stomach is growing....But i do not have this kind of luck, both pregnancy...i gained a lot...u can see a round ball from far...and i hate to see myself thru the mirror...it's just look horrible...nothing fits in my body...That's how women sacrifice for their baby and family....

Well, i can be fit again...with all sorts of diets and exercise plans in mind now..and i believe i will...haha!

Happy Mother's Day

This going to be my 2nd Mother's day..2 years old lilttle Bao still does not understand what is Mother's day. Guess when he is about 4 then sure he knows.

No special celebration will have on the actual day, my mum was no longer here...I miss her a lot...though she has been away from our life for more than 7 years, but i still dream about her occasionally. She always seem happy and healthy in my dream....like back in her days before she was ill.
~Happy Mother's Day to you my dear mum!~

Last week bought my MIL a dinner to celebrate mother's day for her, went to her favorite Vegetarian restaurant at Ipoh.Hope she was happy with my arrangement, both of her sons are overseas now :P

How about my own big day???Poo daddy will be back and we plan to have our own "Parent's day " celebration at a shot! Where to go and what to do???Already have some rough idea...but let's keep it to ourselves first!!!


Lastly, Happy Mother's day to all great mothers!!!

April 2010 ending......

Today is end of April, time flies.....

An update of myself....
I fell down from my son racing car....caused my coccyx bone (tail bone) fracture...pain for one week...recovering now :P

What else to say, do not know....nothing seems special other than my injury...Perhaps talk about my son?! :P

Gary is 2 years 2 months now, he is growing up, no more baby look but more to boy now.He bahaved quite well this week, he knows i'm having pain...and did not give me a lot of hard time. I always think i'm very lucky that i having such a good and adorable kid. He understands what caused my injury, his mum fell down from his race car when playing with him ....shame to mame ...Muahaha!!! He even demonstrated to me how i fell....

I have nothing to complain about this little fella, only his milk intake....why he dislike milk???..still can not find any answer...I never give up, changing and changing my style in feeding him milk, latest trick is feeding with cup and spoon. Guess my milk bottles need to put on shelves, "jialat"...these are newly open bottle that i just bought from cheap sales.

His happiest moment is the time when i pick him from school, he will run to the door steps, juggling with other curious kids so that he can get the first place standing in front of the grille door....So funny looking at this "kiasu" boy. His father said, this must be learning from his "kiasu" mum.HaHaHa!!!

Oh ya!!Another thing....He is a born lawyer, he always like argue with me, see....before he understand fully ..before is speak fluently....he already start arguing with mum.

Mum said :" Hey, this is Honda City hor?"
Gary       : "No...no....it's nice car car"
Mum said :"Ya..nice car, but name is Honda City"
Gary  said angrily  : " No..No....No...nice car car".


Mum said : " Do you want to talk to daddy on the phone"
Gary  :"No...No...dun want"

Mum said :" Hey, Park your car..we are going to Gai Gai"
Gary ride his car to the door step.
Mum said :" No..park back to the original place"
Gary said :"No....park here"

Gary :" Go there....go there" asked me to make right turn when we in the car
Mum said :"No...can not go there"
Gary :"No..go..there...Gary wants go there"

Gary point to a train picture :" see....Thomas"
Mum said :" No...it's a train"
Gary said :" No..No...No...Thomas"
Mum "........."

Happy..Body Fat reduced!

Today, i was brighten up with a good news..my body fat is reduced from 30% to now 24%...i realized this when i have my bi-annual body check up.This  indeed a very good news to me, my body fat % was always at the border of 30%+++. I know this must be the result of my healthy eating habits and routine exercise :)

Taming his temper

It's a challenge now to manage a 2 years old boy, angry outburst turns on when things not going  his way.Frequently see this happening when my boy is sick, hungry...or too tired. Me loose my cool sometimes and things only get worst.

I find it is more effective to use the soft approach,be patient and calm, listen to him, do whatever he commanded, soon his tantrums will be fanned off.
Reacting to kids' meltdowns with yelling and outbursts will only make the situation worse and teach him to do the same. But keeping ourselves cool and calmly working through a frustrating situation is showing and  teaching our kids appropriate ways to handle anger and frustration.

No one is perfect, we will sometimes feel frustrated with all unreasonable requests from an angry child, what do the best is walk away from the situation a while, give yourself a short break and then going back to attend to him....giving him a warm hug and kiss, you will find your child cooling down and start talking to you and telling you why is he upsetting.Many times, feeling listened to and understood is all our kids need to regain their composure.



Trust me...this is the best way to handle your kid...to tame his temper :)

Talk to me

Gary is now 2 years old…and started to have some very simple communication with us. I like to talk to him in the journey to nursery and baby sitter, we talked about the surroundings….things that we see. He is an observant child, he see things faster than me, even for some little tiny things, are most kids the same?

This morning while I was dressing up in the bathroom, he walked to me…He woke up on his own, came down from the bed…walked to me..and the first sentence he talked to me was “”Mame….daddy? …car …car.” I guess only I know what he tried to say. He was trying to ask “Where is daddy? I want to play car car with him”. This little fella,only thing in his head is car and ball…nothing else.

I noticed this little bao learning new word from school everyday, from “Boo Yao” (Don’t want) to “some more”…He helped me to collect laundry from the yard, I passed him one pair of socks, then to my surprise, he said “some more”. Wow, impressive!


Little Bao, talk to me....i like to hear your words....