Happy Mother's Day

This going to be my 2nd Mother's day..2 years old lilttle Bao still does not understand what is Mother's day. Guess when he is about 4 then sure he knows.

No special celebration will have on the actual day, my mum was no longer here...I miss her a lot...though she has been away from our life for more than 7 years, but i still dream about her occasionally. She always seem happy and healthy in my dream....like back in her days before she was ill.
~Happy Mother's Day to you my dear mum!~

Last week bought my MIL a dinner to celebrate mother's day for her, went to her favorite Vegetarian restaurant at Ipoh.Hope she was happy with my arrangement, both of her sons are overseas now :P

How about my own big day???Poo daddy will be back and we plan to have our own "Parent's day " celebration at a shot! Where to go and what to do???Already have some rough idea...but let's keep it to ourselves first!!!


Lastly, Happy Mother's day to all great mothers!!!

April 2010 ending......

Today is end of April, time flies.....

An update of myself....
I fell down from my son racing car....caused my coccyx bone (tail bone) fracture...pain for one week...recovering now :P

What else to say, do not know....nothing seems special other than my injury...Perhaps talk about my son?! :P

Gary is 2 years 2 months now, he is growing up, no more baby look but more to boy now.He bahaved quite well this week, he knows i'm having pain...and did not give me a lot of hard time. I always think i'm very lucky that i having such a good and adorable kid. He understands what caused my injury, his mum fell down from his race car when playing with him ....shame to mame ...Muahaha!!! He even demonstrated to me how i fell....

I have nothing to complain about this little fella, only his milk intake....why he dislike milk???..still can not find any answer...I never give up, changing and changing my style in feeding him milk, latest trick is feeding with cup and spoon. Guess my milk bottles need to put on shelves, "jialat"...these are newly open bottle that i just bought from cheap sales.

His happiest moment is the time when i pick him from school, he will run to the door steps, juggling with other curious kids so that he can get the first place standing in front of the grille door....So funny looking at this "kiasu" boy. His father said, this must be learning from his "kiasu" mum.HaHaHa!!!

Oh ya!!Another thing....He is a born lawyer, he always like argue with me, see....before he understand fully ..before is speak fluently....he already start arguing with mum.

Mum said :" Hey, this is Honda City hor?"
Gary       : "No...no....it's nice car car"
Mum said :"Ya..nice car, but name is Honda City"
Gary  said angrily  : " No..No....No...nice car car".


Mum said : " Do you want to talk to daddy on the phone"
Gary  :"No...No...dun want"

Mum said :" Hey, Park your car..we are going to Gai Gai"
Gary ride his car to the door step.
Mum said :" No..park back to the original place"
Gary said :"No....park here"

Gary :" Go there....go there" asked me to make right turn when we in the car
Mum said :"No...can not go there"
Gary :"No..go..there...Gary wants go there"

Gary point to a train picture :" see....Thomas"
Mum said :" No...it's a train"
Gary said :" No..No...No...Thomas"
Mum "........."

Happy..Body Fat reduced!

Today, i was brighten up with a good news..my body fat is reduced from 30% to now 24%...i realized this when i have my bi-annual body check up.This  indeed a very good news to me, my body fat % was always at the border of 30%+++. I know this must be the result of my healthy eating habits and routine exercise :)

090909~ our love last forever~

Only realized today is 090909, quickly post something before the clock strikes 12am...

Today should be a very auspicious day,i can proof it right as today is a smooth sailing day for me, no major arguement at work ..haha ...LOL!Maybe everyone mood is also better today.

What to talk about for this special day? Love story???Me not good in telling story...I always cut everything short...so it will ended up with a dead boring summary. Furthermore Poo daddy is not a romantic person...could not remember any romantic scene appeared before..

Guess most romantic thing i can mark is our anniversary, we dated on Valentines' day and our ROM also fall into Valentine's day.

Oh..i recalled...Poo daddy bought me first bunch of roses when we first dated on Valentins' day...
A very cute South Park "Kenny soft toy" and a pot of rose on my first birthday...I still keeping the "Kenny Chai" in our store room :P
The following birthdays ,Poo daddy also bought me flowers and gift....till we married, birthday present...anniversary present are becoming "upon request" LOL!

The below conversation always appears in our chat...

Poo Mame:"B...."
Poo Daddy:"Yes?"
Poo Mame :"How much u love me ah?"
Poo Daddy:"Love loh..."
Poo Mame :"How much love ler...Now love me more or last time?"
Poo Daddy:"Aiya..same...lah, no change."
Poo Mame :"Sure ah? If you got 100 Million love, how much is for me?"
Poo Daddy:" 50/50 la"
Poo Mame:" Why 50 only? The rest ler?"
Poo Daddy:"Oh i have to keep some for myself, my family mah.."
Poo Mame :"I want all la"
Poo Daddy:"ok la ok la...give u all la"
POO Mame then happily hugs Poo daddy....Then poo daddy will shake his head..Haha!!!
It's fun...though this keep on repeating!!!Haha!

But now the 50/50 rule changed to 50% for Poo Mame and 50% to little Poo ...Hooray!!!


Wish everyone 9~9~9, in chinese last forever.....


Our love stays young forever~ Muarksss~

Places that i have stayed before part 2

Regensburg, Germany.

I was there for 3 months, experienced Winter and Spring. I experienced the coldest Winter in my life, it was -16 deg C. I swear you can't walk on the street more than 15 minutes. To me, it's fun! LOL! I like to see snow....falling from the sky.But walking in the snow can be awful.

This place is an old town, a district in Bavaria, famous with Alps and food.The Bavarian Alps define the border with Austria, and within the range is the highest peak in Germany,the Zugspitze.

The people...Generally Germans are quite self-righteous,they do not speak other languages and not easy to mix with. Probably they do not speak well in Engish.Make sure you know some key German words or equipped with a pocket dictionary, as the public places are not English friendly :(

Bavarians tend to place a great value on food and drink.
I miss the food here a lot....nd of course the beers!

Schwein braten-the most common dish in upper Bavaria. Pork served in slices with gravy, accompanied by Knödel (Smashed potato ball)

Schweinshaxe Grilled pork joint often served as half with Knödel and sauerkraut, best goes together with weissbeer!!!!

Nürnberger Bratwurst mit Sauerkraut- Smallest among all sausages in Bavaria, this one become famous all over Germany.Fried sausages served with sauerkraut is a speciality from Nürnberg


The standard serving for a beer is 0,5l " eine Halbe" beer is traditionally served by the litre in Germany

Dunkles (meaning "dark") that has a stronger taste because it is brewed with more malt. This one beats all kind of beers from other country .....taste so smooth and a bit sweet.

Weißbier - literally meaning "white beer" - is made of barley and wheat.It tastes more sour than Helles

Helles - which means "pale" .It is a type of lager beer, similar to the pilsener, but contains less hop and tastes sweeter.

All about food, right? Ya,other than the township, all i miss is the food :)








Poo Daddy having his 1 meter long sausage in the mini October fest



Me on the peak of Zugspitze



Poo Daddy having his Schweinshaxe, yummy!



1 litle beer....



Spring ...

momentum in life

Do you have a dream?What is your dream?
My dream is very simple...
Wake up early each morning, make a set of English breakfast for Poo Daddy, myself and little Poo....We go to work after breakfast and Little Poo go to school...I cook dinner each day for Poo daddy and little Poo,imagine both of them sitting on the dining table waiting for their food :) 3 of us then squeeze in a couch, watching TV....then Poo Daddy read bed time story for little Poo before go to bed.We go parks...shopping..watch movie....sports together during weekends....
Above is my dream,a very ordinary life to everyone....but for me, it's only a dream.
We've made a very difficult choice in our life and because of this, Both Poo daddy and i were separated by distance....We dream for each other in different corner of the globe each night.
As we chat about future, Poo daddy said we are his momentum to move forward...Without me and little Poo, his life is meaningless...whatever he strikes now will not serve any purpose.
Very soon....very soon... our dream will come true, we just have to hold on for a little while.Poo Daddy will drive us to the destination with his full momentum!!!

Chinese? English???

I'm Chinese educated since kindergarten,Chinese is my mother language,first word i know is not "A..B..C" but "一。。。。二。。。。三". I have never never doubt my Chinese standard until recently.... Friends around me said:"Oh, ya...u sure u are Chinese educated?" Oh my god! Is my mandarin that bad?! I admit that i may mixed a little Cantonese slang, that's always common for "Ipoh Mari". LOL!
So, i gave myself a reading test, i tried to read a paragraph in a Chinese article,and you know what, i couldn't read smoothly like the old school days! I stopped every 3-5 words...Oh gosh, i almost want to hide myself under the table.

I told my best friend of mine (my ex-schoolmate) that my Chinese is being challenged by colleagues and friends, and she didn't believe me.In her memory, my Chinese is good,as i always scored high marks in essay writing, and even submitted post to magazines.

Guess i have returned whatever i have learned from school to my teachers.In today's working environment,we use English most of the time, i would say since we graduated from High School, we no longer speak and write Chinese,gradually i have lost the power of mastering this language.Will it be too late to pick it up again?I still strongly believe nothing is too late :)

I will definitely send my little Poo to Chinese school, i always proud for myself as a Chinese educated student.Well...Do not fool yourself, it's no longer English education system now in our primary school unless you send your kids to International School.
A very good example is Poo Daddy, who is a banana....He regrets that he does not know Chinese and missed out a lot of interesting stuffs in his life, books..entertainments...and now even work is hard for him in China :(

Do remember one thing, your kid's future count on you, one simple action from you decides their future!!!

busy weekend

Last weekend, brothers and i celebrated a belated Father's day lunch for our father. He suggested that we go for Sitiawan seafood, so being good daughter and sons, we purposely drove down to Sitiawan to have seafood lunch...We did not aware it is located o far, we thought it is only about 45 minutes drive from Ipoh town...After the lunch,my brother said...went to a pirate ship, should just had lunch nearby ..LOL!
But, can really see my father is happy to see us all attended to the lunch ....which already worth the effort...:)


It was a busy home trip, after had lunch with my own family, then next was be dinner with my MIL and BIL, we went to have vegetarian sushi, My BIL misses the food here after being months in China.Frankly, i like the food here too...especially the sushi.

We went to Tesco to have little shop , reached home about 10.30pm, i suppose to meet up with my best friend who so happened to return home at the same time.But she had plan, so we postponed to Sunday.

All i can say is a tiring Saturday, despite of the traveling and being out the whole day, i need to take care of little Bao , who ran up and down in the car,did not give me a chance to have peaceful lunch and dinner....Days of battle on the table just begins, he just wants to be like us, using spoon and fork on the dining place, taking food that meant for adult, rejecting his own baby food... His stubborn character is more and more surface up now, little Poo very soon becomes a little monster in my life :(

Sunday began with a brunch,finally met up with my best friend at her house, i did not bring little Bao (my MIL helped me to take care of my him)...We even went to visited another good friend, all 3 of us were very good friends during school day. Time flies, it almost 15 years we graduated from school,only meeting once or twice a year during big day.

Though the last weekend was so packed, but i really enjoyed it...precious moments with families and friends.

What is in your mind when u are dying?

I woke up in the middle of the night,suddenly felt difficult to breath and my chest was pain.I did not know what happened,could feel the my heart was like burning.
I got up from bed and sat up right, the chest pain still there and i tried to drink some water, the pain got stronger and coming with fast heart beat.

You know what came into my mind instantly??? Am i dying? No..i can't die now....If i die,who is taking care of little Poo???Poo daddy is not here....No, god....i can't die just like that...Atleast let me see Poo daddy is back and be with little Poo....No..i can't die now......I turned and looked at little Poo, he was sleeping tightly besides me....No..i can't die...i can't die now...
Maybe i should go to the hospital, I pull myself up and went downstair, saw my best friend was still working in the living room,she also worried to see me in pain, asked me to make some hot drink, maybe it helps to relief a bit.If not then go see doctor right away.

I made myself a half cup of Horlicks, sitting on the sofa....i can feeled to Horlicks ran down in my throat, pain...What's wrong???Totally no idea.Funny thing was i told her maybe the tablet that i took before bed stucked in my esophagus. Then she laughed at me...If really that's the case,u sure choked.

After a while, i burped, a lot of gas....feeled better after gas were burped out.
We diagnosed that the root couse should gas in my stomach.It could be the ginger tea that i took in the evening which relieves the gas and causing chest pain. This Chest pain caused by heart burn generally originates at the top of the stomach and leading the burning sensation to higher up in the throat.


After this incident, I realised the bond is so strong between me and little Poo,i care about him the most on that critical moment.I can't leave him unless he is being well taken care....unless Poo Daddy is with him...
So if i die, i want to die in Poo daddy arms and hug of little Poo.

"Something" that would change my life

I'm anticipating something...something that i would really want to try...
But this something that i'm waiting for seems getting further now...it touched me, making me feel great and giving me hope....But all seems getting vague now...like disappearing in the mist...
Sounds very mysterious???LOL!
I guess i should not take this "something" too seriously, if it's turning into real then it's a bonus to me ...Well,I'm wrapping this up,carry on my life now...

Laziness climbs over my head

Lazy..very lazy...

Do not feel like to talk ...

Do not feel like to move...

Do not feel like to think...

Just let me be a lazy pig for a while,ok?

Last weekend, brothers and friends were at town,visited some tourist spots that i will not go in normal days... :P
Went to Spice Garden,made one big round in Penang Island,had durian in Balik Pulau...Disovered my little Poo is also like me, having motion sickness....You know waht is my first reaction? I laughed.....Muahaha..I recall,still find it's funny...He was having his favourite biscuit, then suddenly he looked to the front kept asking me for "chut chut" (His pacifier).At first i did not understand why he was having biscuits halfway , some more need his pacifier then suddenly i realised....coz i was having nausee too that time while going on the winding road at Balik Pulau.
Little Poo immediately lie on my lap,quietly sucking his pacifier....did not move at all...It was so funny to look at him having motion sickness...LOL!!!

















Some photos taken in Spice Garden, there is a small stream in the garden and Little Poo enjoyed so much!

How could this happen to me???

Lately like this song very much
How could this happen to me- By Simple Plan

Sometimes when i'm down , i feel this song connected with me :( Well, ok....only sometimes...sometimes...

I will be quickly cheered up by my little Bao when he smile at me :)


See below, do you feel it connected to u too?

****************************************************
I open my eyes
I try to see but I'm blinded by the white light.
I can’t remember how
I can’t remember why
Why in here tonight
And I can’t stand the pain
And I can’t make it go away
No I can’t stand the pain

How could this happen to me
I've made my mistakes
got nowhere to run
The night goes on as I’m fading away
I'm sick of this life
I just wanna scream
How could this happen to me

Everybody’s screaming
I try to make a sound but no one hears me
I’m slipping off the edge
I’m hanging by a thread
I wanna start this over again
So I try to hold
On to a time when
Nothing mattered
And I can’t explain what happened
And I can’t erase the things that I’ve done
No I can’t

How could this happen to me
I've made my mistakes
got nowhere to run
The night goes on as I’m fading away
I’m sick of this life
I just wanna scream
How could this happen to me

I've made my mistakes
got nowhere to run
The night goes on as I’m fading away
I’m sick of this life
I just wanna scream
How could this happen to me

What could be worse?

My company started workforce reduction exercise for quite a while, every month we hearing..so and so got the package and left the company.Most of the time i only play as a listerner role or more to "keh poh" , it means busybody in English.
I never thought that this is going to hit me till early this year, after seeing so many people are leaving, even those "big gun". I suddenly wake up from day dream, well ...there will be one day, this going to fall onto me,mentally i already well prepared to accept the fact that " I could be retrenched". It's not a lost to me, it's a lost to the company :0
My company was acquired by an International financial instituition, but they have no mission and vision to expand and develop the company, after all these years i can see only cost cutting, selling off division which not earning money...down sizing....All they care is financial figures, they cares about how much $$$ going into their pocket, don't talk about employee welfare....who cares?
Lately the retrenchment storm started again, and it finally comes to my department, everyone is speculating ...and i think "it 's ok. it could be my turn now...", Ended up, there is one colleague of mine being retrenched. I'm safe this round, could be safe for another 3 months, before the next storm is coming to the city :P
No one is scared being retrenched in this company, strange , isn't it? Most of the employee hoping that being offered the retrenchment package. You can imagine how bad is the morale....
Isn't it good to be paid for a break and charge up to look for new oppoturnity???Think in a more positive way.
I have lost the enthusiasm and passion to work for this company, if i stay longer here i will become another "Anaconda", keep on hibernating ...... :)
It's time to put a stop....Will see what's happened next!

Good luck to me

All of the sudden, there are great oppoturnities coming to me.....All happened beyond my expectation, should have feel happy with it.
Other than hapiness , it also bringing me busy days, running around to meet peoples, endless thinking to find a balance point, to make difficult decision...
At the end, i turned down the offer, it was a not too bad oppoturnity...But, well...my son.... my family still come as top priority.

What will happen next??? Continue with same working life....everyday walk into the office like a zombie...and looking forward the clock to strike 5? Or shall i start a new life??? We will see.....

how to burn callories

Have you ever wonder how much calories you have burned during exercice?or how much exercisce you need to take to burn off a slice of pizza or a piece of fried chicken drumsrick?

I have found some examples of activities and exercices to burn calories consumed by eating some of your favourite food. All the below information are sourced from dietandfitnessresources, UK


After reading the facts below, you will sure be more alert before you eat...


Activities to Burn Calories:

Orange 59 Canoeing 37mins
Green Apple 62 Free Weights 13mins 15mins
Strawberry Yoghurt 108 Jogging Slowly 18mins
Chocolate Chip Muffin 476 Mountain Climbing 58mins


Tuna Wrap, Subway 310 Body Pump 1 hr 10mins
Bacon Sandwich (White Bread) 430 Football58mins
Ham & Cheese Toastie, Coffee 436 Netball 1hr 30mins
Sandwich Starbucks 437 Tae Bo 50mins
Egg Mayo Sandwich508 Horse Riding 1hr 5mins
Quarter Pounder with Cheese McDonalds 515 Cross Trainer 1hr 25mins
All Day Breakfast 715 Walking 4mph 2hrs 25mins

Pepperoni Pizza, Dominos (1 Slice) 198 Swimming 45mins
Chips(Small Portion) 240 Ballroom Dancing 50mins 1 hr
Spaghetti Bolognese 380 Step aerobics, low imp 50mins 1hr
Steak & Kidney Pie 447 Badminton 1hr 30mins
Roast Beef Dinner 816 Cycling 15mph 1hr 40mins

Orange Juice (200ml) 90 Ping Pong 30mins
Dry White Wine (175ml) 115 Cricket, Batting 30mins
Red wine (175ml) 119 Digging 18mins
Coke(330ml Can) 142 Cable Row 35mins

I'm back....

My last post was weeks ago, guess i should report myself today. Reason of being silence are just busy+lazy, busy+lazy....busy+lazy...
I think i should shed away the laziness and cheer up myself to get back to writing.What i did lately? Many things...

Last weekend went back to Ipoh for "Ching Meng"-tombs sweeping.It is always fun despite of the hassle,a very good family get together activity. This year everyone participated except my younger brother who needs to work, but maintain the same headcount as we have recruited a new member- My sister in law :)
Little Gary stayed at home with his grandma,i couldn't bring him together...he is just too small for this. Wait till he is 3, then Poo daddy will carry him uphill to do tomb sweeping, looking forward to the day to come.

Jogging,i was quite into jogging lately,even utilising my lunch hour to run on treadmill. I jog mostly 2-3 times a week, like the sweating moment a lot...I enroled to Penang earth day run which going to be held on 19th April.This is the first time to participate in running event,wanted to join the crowd...see how good my stamina is..Hope i do not need the ambulance assistance la.LOL!

Work,still busy working days...plus i'm looking for some back up plans for myself in case i'm jobless.But it's kind of hard for me coz i can't risk myself to quit current job and venture into any business, i can only be a partimer for a start and if business run smoothly and stabily then i will only to consider to quit my job and full time on own business.But if i'm retrenched then no need to think twice but to go all out, right?

Poo BaoBao-Little Gary, he is getting more and more cheeky.Oh ya...my last post is about his reduced milk intake, now is getting a bit better, but i still feed him milk+cereal with his leftover milk.He learns everyday,talking his own baby language which i hardly undertand...hit it right with my best guess...haha..
1) He pointed tree then said "tee".
2) He said "ng ng", means he wants to poo.Ya my son knows how to tell wen he wants to poo.Good boy!
3) He said "mum mum" means he wants to eat
4) He pointed fish, said "fu..fu", he trying to say fish
5) He pointed duck, said "ah",it means he sees duck
6) He ponited flower,yet said "fu..fu" :)
7) He mumbles all the time....
8) He said "da..di" for daddy
9) etc...etc...



Cheeky BaoBao wearing mame's sunglasses



This is a backdated photo, taken in Tesco Ipoh Jan 09

service sucks!!!

I believe those live in Malaysia dislike the troublesome procedure of EPF withdrawal to repay housing loan. A lot of documents and preparation are needed...
Everytime i went to to KWSP, i will sure ask:"Why it's so difficult to take my own money?" It's our money ,we have to right to withdraw for neccessary own use...Why we need to go thru all these nonsence procedure???

I have even worse experience now with C_t_Bank, a so-called well established overseas banking corporation. Their home loan service is sucks!!!!

Me and poo daddy made the request to get some endorsed legal documents from C_T_Bank (e.g. SnP, deed of assignment...etc), and you know what...They sent me only the house loan outstanding statement. Come on, should they be more professional???
The handle the EPF withdrawal process day in and out, and they should know what documents are needed and provide best advice.

I have already informed them this is my first withdrawal and KWSP need the list of documents and yet...This officer still sending reply like below.

I really want to !@#!#@#$@% when i see this reply, what kind of customer service is this???

I will not take the mortgage from this bank anymore!!





"Hi Madam,

Thanks for your mail.

As mentioned below, we - C_t_bank has simplified process with EPF office for withdrawal. We have linked system with EPF office nowadays, we will only certified thru copy on latest repayment statement for customer and customer just brings it to EPF office for withdrawal will do.

Hope this clarifies.

Thanks.

- - - --- - - - -- - - - -


-----Original Message-----
From: Loon Kha Yan
Sent: Wednesday, March 18, 2009 11:43 AM
To: Chew, Christine Cc
malaysia.customer.service@c_t_.com


Hi Christine,



I doubted your explanation. As far as I understand for first KWSP withdrawal we need to submit the following documents

1) Endorsed copy of SnP

2) Deed of assignment

3) Outstanding Bank loan statement.



We anticipate a better or I should say professional advice from C_t_bank mortgage team in order to process the KWSP Withdrawal, as a home loan officer , you should be clear what to advice the customer as you do processing the KWSP withdrawal day in and out!



I have made 2nd attempt to request for the above documents, and to my surprise, I only received the bank statement “again”. I really disappointed to C_t_bank Home Loan dept, this is obviously unprofessional service that I’m obtaining. I have been wasting more than 1.5 months to wait for the documents to reach me.



As a customer, I seriously not happy to the service that I’m getting today and will not recommend any of my friends to engage with C_t_bank home loan till we see a further improvement in service to home loan customer!







Best Regards,

KhaYan, Loon


--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

From: Chew, Christine Cc Sent: Wednesday, March 04, 2009 3:22 PM
To: LOON,KHA-YAN
Subject: RE: Flexi HomeLoan Acc No:
Importance: High



Hi Mr Wong,



Thanks for your mail.



FYI. We have simplified process with EPF office for withdrawal. We have linked system with EPF office nowadays, we will only certified thru copy on latest repayment statement for customer and customer just bring it to EPF office for withdrawal will do. Normally EPF office will take approx 3 weeks - 1 month for the withdrawal.



And I've checked with the front desk's record that you have requested 2 copies of repayment record from the form ticked previously. RM 10.00 per pc.



Hope the above clarifies.



Thanks.



-----Original Message-----
From:
Sent: Wednesday, March 04, 2009 11:34 AM
To: Chew, Christine Cc
Subject: Flexi HomeLoan Acc No:

Christine,



Recently, following advice from one of your personnel handling my loan (David) I went to Level 10 Mortgage department to request all the related documents for EPF withdrawal to reduce homeloan. The front desk gave me a form to fill in my particulars and address. She also reminded me that RM20 fee will be charged to my loan account and the parcel is expected to arrive within 2weeks time. As I will not be around for the coming months due to business trip, my wife received the documents. To my surprise, there is only bank statement inside the envelope received.



I’m not sure how the confusion came about and I have stated clearly that I wanted the supporting documents to reduce my loan through EPF withdrawal. I would assume the bank should know the procedures on how and what to be presented to the EPF department for this purpose. Can you help to verify on this as I do not intend to pay RM20 for only 3 copies of bank statement.



Rgds,

Wong

Home Farming

I have started to set up a small farm at my back yard, and after 3 weeks of effort..i got something growing in my little farm..


Kai-lan, one week old



Thai Basil, i put the Basil stems in to the soil, and it looks so healthy after one week


3 weeks old spring onion..



Choi Sum- 3 weeks old, will need to replant into better position,these are all seedlings.


Ladies Fingers- 3 weeks old, need to be segregated into individual pots.


Hopefuly another 30-50 days, i can start harvest..

My Valentine's Day

My valentines's day started as early as 4.30am. My brother made a reservation on today to have their marriage registeration done, normally will be a group registeration, it means couples are gathered together and have their their simple ceremory done witness by friends and relatives

As the ceremony start on 9am at Ipoh,so we have to depart early, so that there are sufficent time for them to dressed up. Poor little Gary also woke up by me...coz my alram set with hi s favourite song,then next couple of seconds of alarms On, i saw him sat on the bed started shaking his body with his eyes half opened...Oh..he was so cute!Quickly fed him milk milk and brought him to the car, he was so excited...did not make noise at all....kept climbing up and down in the car...slept back when he got tired.

I attended my brother's marriage registration till 1pm,left Gary at home with my MIL coz foresee this would be long session. Luckily we can have little chat and snacks to buy time.


Went home with exhausted body,couldn't take a nap....my little one was awake...played with him a while and had a bit rest after that.

I had a very interesting Valentine's dinner this year, a year without Poo Daddy, but together with Poo Daddy's family members :). My brother in law suggested we have dinner together with my PIL, his gf, me and Gary, so it turned to be Family event!
But thanks for his suggestion, so that i able to try such special dishes with Vegetarian Sushi....Nice dishes...
Wait....will upload the photos when is ready....be patient, ya.







Fried vege tempura...



vegetarian sushi, we have spicy tuna, golden dragon which on top is Mango ..u can't not imagine how good it is when Mango meets Wasabi!Slurpp....

Happy Valentine's Day

Wishing everyone Happy Valentine's day!!!

Wishing Poo Daddy Happy 11th Anniversary!!!

~Words spoken even in Silence~

~Thought shared no matter where we are~

~No fear in me knowing I'm always your sweet heart~

~You knodded your head saying I'm your only one~

~You feel lucky in having me in your life~