Wednesday, March 17, 2010

I miss you

Poo Daddy told me last night that he suddenly missed little Bao, my reaction was :”What? I thought you miss him everyday and night?” Then he said “Ya lah, but yesterday's feeling was very strong!”.
“So, what you do next?” I said.
“Continue working loh” He replied.
“@#$%#$.....” I mumbled.
Sometimes I do too, in the middle of the day when I was busy doing my job, Little Bao’s cutie face will flash in my head….or sometimes when I walked in the mall during lunch hour, I will think of him.People always said, your son/daughter was your lover in the previous life. This myth is somehow true, as we will only think of our lover at anytime, at anyplace.

Recently I feel very touched on an radio advertisement….Something like this...the advertisement is in Cantonese.

“ Mummy, How are you? I’m fine here”
“ Mummy, I miss you very much, I hope you are fine too”
“ I dream every night, I see the fierce fire….and you hold me very tightly with you whole body”
“Mummy, do not worry about me, I will be good here, I know you can hear me and protect me from heaven”

I repeatedly hearing this many… many times on the radio, it’s a fire extinguisher advertisement. I still getting heavy every time I hear. Mother always prepared to sacrifice everything to love to protect her kid…including her life. That’s the born to be instinct deeply embedded in every living creature.

Monday, March 15, 2010

Natural healing

I bought a book by Dr Tom Wu during recent visit to a book store, not intentionally looked for this title, it just coincidentally Dr Tom Wu's books are now having promotion.I always interested in healing power by natural ingredients, so i took 2 of his books home.



His way of natural healing is very simple, not involving too much of do and don't.....What we need to do is just taking frequently mixed fruits smoothies....I did not invest in heavy duty blender,i afraid my "3 minutes fever" character and do not adhere to this practice :)
Using a normal blender resulted a more "crushed" feel in the smoothies, not really smooth as smoothies, i can still find small pieces of seeds and skins in the mixed, well..i think this is still fine for me as a beginner.

So far i have practiced for few days,i do not follow exactly Dr Tom Wu's way, i cheat....ya..i cheat!i only drink once in the morning and evening...I do not want to force myself to the corner...Just taking this as a habit gradually.

In his theory, we need to have 3 bowel movements a day, how can i do that? It's hard...so far the max is 2 times i can go...

Those who are interested, you may click on this to find out more.

"Dr Tom Wu"

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Re-opening

Hi all....

Here i come again..after 6 months diving in the sea, now i surface out to grasp some fresh air.
Friends are complaining why i did not send new post...and i have all sorts of reasons and excuses.

For those miss us....here we are now!!!




Gary at his 2 years old birthday celebration




Playing with his toy car which come together with the cake.


Gary is 2 years old now and i started to send him to half day school.Not school actually, to be exact...it's a play group.Everyday 8.30 to 12pm,then i need to utilize my lunch hour to pick him from school and sending him to baby sitter.

On the first 2 days,he was ok, so i did not have hard time to send him there.

But the second week, he started to cry before reaching school,he has good sense in geographic, at main road ...not yet reaching the junction, he already started to say "no..." "mame, baobao "to me....He didn't want to go to school.

He cried very loudly when we reached school, then teacher carry him in...and he was like being kidnapped by someone else...Pity him. According to teacher, he only cried for a while then he got ok for the whole morning...I trust her, coz when i pick him up after school, he seems ok and happy.

This week is the third week my prince schooling, other than little noise he made on Monday morning, the rest of the time are perfectly alright.He is improving day by day. Poo daddy has his daily report everyday on how is son doing at school, i will call him to brief him, he seems a bit worry that his son dislike schooling.Don't worry...our son doing well!


Last week he made an paper craft...a paper elephant...I feel so proud of him and almost melted in my heart...Oh, boy...he is growing up and this is the first piece of art that he made.I'm keeping this together with all my precious.

Gary, mame and daddy love u!!!

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

090909~ our love last forever~

Only realized today is 090909, quickly post something before the clock strikes 12am...

Today should be a very auspicious day,i can proof it right as today is a smooth sailing day for me, no major arguement at work ..haha ...LOL!Maybe everyone mood is also better today.

What to talk about for this special day? Love story???Me not good in telling story...I always cut everything short...so it will ended up with a dead boring summary. Furthermore Poo daddy is not a romantic person...could not remember any romantic scene appeared before..

Guess most romantic thing i can mark is our anniversary, we dated on Valentines' day and our ROM also fall into Valentine's day.

Oh..i recalled...Poo daddy bought me first bunch of roses when we first dated on Valentins' day...
A very cute South Park "Kenny soft toy" and a pot of rose on my first birthday...I still keeping the "Kenny Chai" in our store room :P
The following birthdays ,Poo daddy also bought me flowers and gift....till we married, birthday present...anniversary present are becoming "upon request" LOL!

The below conversation always appears in our chat...

Poo Mame:"B...."
Poo Daddy:"Yes?"
Poo Mame :"How much u love me ah?"
Poo Daddy:"Love loh..."
Poo Mame :"How much love ler...Now love me more or last time?"
Poo Daddy:"Aiya..same...lah, no change."
Poo Mame :"Sure ah? If you got 100 Million love, how much is for me?"
Poo Daddy:" 50/50 la"
Poo Mame:" Why 50 only? The rest ler?"
Poo Daddy:"Oh i have to keep some for myself, my family mah.."
Poo Mame :"I want all la"
Poo Daddy:"ok la ok la...give u all la"
POO Mame then happily hugs Poo daddy....Then poo daddy will shake his head..Haha!!!
It's fun...though this keep on repeating!!!Haha!

But now the 50/50 rule changed to 50% for Poo Mame and 50% to little Poo ...Hooray!!!


Wish everyone 9~9~9, in chinese last forever.....


Our love stays young forever~ Muarksss~

19 months old Gary

I think I'm seriously getting lazy, not many post i have published lately...partly due to busy work life that i'm having now....damn super duper "Roti Canai" colleague giving me a hard life!!really want to @#$@%@^. Must thank my colleague giving him a nice name "Roti Canai", coz he always flip flop in his statements....annoying!
OK..i should delete this person in my memory, he ain't important in my family... my life.

Let's talk about little Bao,time flies..He is 19 months now, But still look tiny. :(
He speaks quite a lot now but with his own language, only people that genius like me (his mum) understand him ..LOL!

Though he is not well spoken yet, but he starts argue with me...He pointed to a chicken say "Bird", i corrected him, but he keeps telling me "bird..bird". Another example, i said , see there is a dog, then he will reply me "wowo"."No, it's dog" I said. But what can i hear is all "wowo", "wowo"..Faint!!!

Little Bao a very "wai sek" boy. Anything that i put in my mouth, he will ask for his share...But he does not like his own food like porridge and milk. Oh...apparently his milk intake is increasing after i changed to Pediasure.Hope this will last forever....I do not mind to pay more as long as he drinks milk.
All his teeth already popped up, started to train him to brush his teeth every morning and nite.
There are another 2 things that i wanted to train him,most difficult tasks
1) Get rid of his pacifier, he is too addicted with his pacifier,guess my baby sitter needs to play her part too, seriously need to cut down the use of pacifier.

2) Pee Pee, he tells us when he wants to poo, but not when he wants to pee. I have tried few times to bring him to toilet bowl, but he still pee on his pants...My target is diaper free when he reaches 2 !Keep it up!!!


He has good memory, and i guess most kids do.

A boy is a boy, inherited all kinds of naughty character...see below pictures...



At first sit happily on a bean bag




Starts sinking



Half of his body inside the bag




Sunk further after 5 seconds....




Mame, help ...help me!

Thursday, September 3, 2009

How little Poo change Poo daddy

Poo daddy is the youngest son in his family,has the greatest love of all. His parents see him as a precious ,as a star.Maybe due to different family education, you are not a friendly person and a too detailed person (too much thinking) LOL!

It was a difficult process and hard decision for him when i first told him i want a kid in our family. I could not remember how much fight we had in this topic,and finally he agrees with me (but i know he was forced to agree with me).

One day in July 07, i told him i was not feeling well and Poo daddy brought me to see doctor in nearby Clinic, and i was diagnosed as 5 weeks pregnant.I was so ...so happy, but did not see the same thing on his face...i see worriness on his face but the happiness that i had overcame the sadness that Poo daddy given to me...

I'm not so lucky as most of the mum-to-be where hubby is taking good care of their preggie wife. Most of the time i handled things on my own, i had dinner alone...i spent time with my baby alone, Poo Daddy kept busy on his work :(

8 months passed, Little Poo came to our live... I asked Poo Daddy how did he feeled?He observed the whole delivery process, he feeled mysterious more than happy...A baby came out from my stomach and arrived into his life.

This kid changes Poo Daddy, from not-kids friendly hubby to a lovingly daddy!I think that's power from the little Poo!!!

Poo Daddy can carry new born little Poo, amazing!
Poo Daddy feeds little Poo, unbelievable!
Poo Daddy peeps on little Poo when little Poo is sleeping, Sweet!

Little Poo has turned Poo Daddy to a better person, a more real person.Poo Daddy now misses little Poo more than mame, everytime he shops, he looks for little Poo stuffs...His desktop keep flashing little Poo photos.

After 18 months, i asked the same question again, How do you feel now?
"I feel different, unexplanable bond to little Poo, he melts my heart!" this was the answer he gave.
"Do you still scared of responsility?"
"Not that heavy as before Little Poo was borned" He said :)

Seeing little Poo grow day by day and getting smarter and smarter,he will sure smile in his heart that he made the right decision!

Friday, August 14, 2009

coversations with my little Bao

I'm back....After a long silence :)
Last week was a stay at home mum, my baby sitter went on Tour, yeah..again!So i have to take care of little Bao myself.No doubt is tiring, but fun to be with him, to be honest he is not very cranky baby, oops...he is no longer baby, a boy boy now.So take care of him is not a difficult task.
Little Bao is 18 months now, understand pretty well on what i said to him, he even know when is the right time to ignore me.
Example 1:
When i ask, "Today you got good boy or not?", he looks left and right,pretends never listen...points to the sky says "Bird bird, no more."
Example 2:
When i ask, "Today you got drink nen nen?", He shakes his head and opens his arms ...then says "mame ..bao...bao..",asks me to carry him.
Example 3:
When I ask, " Can you kiss mame?" he turned his head, then i ask again" Can you kiss aunty?" Then he immediately kisses the aunt.

The happiest thing for him is go outing, think kids always like to hang around outside the house :)
"Come,we go"kai-kai" now, get your shoes". Then he will scream happily and run to the door steps and get his shoes.
"Give the ball to mame, we going to the car now,ok?
Then he will say "K". LOL!

He is getting naughtier day by day, throw things on the floor when he get angry, beat my face when i pull him up from something that i do not want him to touch or play.I can't stand him so naughty, so i started to cane him. Ya...I caned him when he throws tantrum.





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